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The Lavalife "twins" have the reputation on being the Best Dating Sites on the Web, but do Lavalife.com and Lavalife.ca really help introduce you to tons of Beautiful Women? And do they make it easy to succeed with them? (For more information on this, go to: http://jewishdating-service.blogspot.com/ ) Lavalife was one of the first successful online dating sites on the web. Because of this, it offers a list of capabilities that outperforms most other dating sites. Plus, many of the functions that you would have to pay for elsewhere, are free on the Lavalife sites. There are also a long list of optional features you won't find on most other sites, such as video capabilities, dating advice and articles, and even horoscopes. You only have to pay, when you actually find someone you feel is worth contacting. And even then, you only pay per actual use, rather than being stuck with a monthly fee whether you use the service or not. Lavalife.com and Lavalife.ca have a unique feature - they split their membership into three categories: casual dating, relationship seeking, and intimate affairs. (Although you can be a participant in all three categories, if you wish.) This allows you to better target the type of partner you're seeking. Finally, there's a particular advantage for Canadians. Lavalife is a Canadian company (headquartered in Toronto). So unlike many global online companies, who open up a dot-ca site that is only a clone of their sites in other countries, Lavalife's Canadian site has a distinctly Canadian feel to it. This may be one reason that Lavalife.ca is number one in Canada, in its field. But before you run off and join Lavalife, I'm going to be honest with you. There are some very substantial obstacles to finding and meeting your Dream Girl on Lavalife. In fact, over *90%* of males on Lavalife, do NOT get ANY dates with beautiful women! This may be a shock to you, but don't worry. Fortunately for you, I'm going to reveal the Insider Secrets to becoming one of the few percent of men, who use the Lavalife sites to obtain an unending stream of dates with Gorgeous Girls! But first, you need to understand what the problems are - so we can solve them together. Here are some typical comments about sites like Lavalife, from the 90% plus of guys, who FAIL on dating sites. I then follow each comment with the blunt truth, about the REAL reason they failed... "It's a waste of money. Most of the time, I pay to contact a woman who doesn't respond to me. And even when they do, we trade 2 or 3 emails, and then they're gone!" Real Reason: Women on online dating sites have LOTS of guys contacting them. With lots to choose from, they have to decide quickly which ones are worth spending time on. This was YOUR fault - you didn't give the women a reason to pick YOU. You didn't stand out above the average guy - you just faded into the crowd. "Everyone there is only interested in sex. Don't bother with it, if you want a relationship." Real Reason: Your fault again. Many guys ARE only looking for sex, so they would consider this to be an advantage. However, unless you CLEARLY state otherwise, you'll get tagged as an average, sex-searching guy. You have to learn the Secrets to presenting yourself, in a way that gets responses from the kind of women you desire! "I can never hookup with the women I really want, because all the women are looking within a very narrow age range." Real Reason: ALL women look "within a narrow age range" initially, whether online or in person. But MANY women wind up having affairs with guys who are MUCH older, or younger. You simply don't know how to get by "first impressions" - you need to learn this Secret! "You have to buy 50 credits, but use 6 credits at a time. That doesn't divide evenly, so you're stuck with 2 leftover credits." Real Reason: Excuse me? A credit costs a buck or two. So you're telling me that when it comes to the most important thing in a guy's life - finding an outstanding, beautiful women (or many such women) - you're worried about a few bucks? Hey, if you're that CHEAP - you deserve to NEVER have a great, gorgeous girl! "Online dating sites are a scam. I was on the site for over a year, and not one woman would meet with me. I never talked to them more than twice, cause they would stop replying and block me." Real Reason: Excuse me? It is very rare for a woman on an online dating site, to have to resort to the blocking feature. And you say you were blocked frequently? Sorry to tell you the truth, guy - but you just confirmed to the rest of us reading this, that you must be one of the biggest male losers on the planet! What YOU need to learn from all this, is that succeeding at online dating is a SKILL - just like any other pursuit in life. You have to LEARN the skill, in order to avoid being one of the over 90% of guys who fail. And there are ways to move to the "head of the class", to make the Beautiful Girls on these sites beg to meet YOU! I lay out all the details of exactly how to do this, in the next article in this series (go to jewishdating-service dot blogspot dot com.) But for now, here are some details on the Lavalife sites themselves: Over a million members; Reduced rates for multiple month subscriptions; Worldwide coverage; Relationships types - Dating, Relationships, and Intimate Encounters; Online since 1987. In conclusion, just signing up with Lavalife.com or Lavalife.ca, does not allow you to use these dating sites effectively. There are Secrets you must learn, first! Skills and techniques which move you far above the "average guy", and WILL get you a long line of Beautiful Women wanting to meet you - regardless of your looks, financial status, or age. And I give you a step-by-step Plan to do exactly that, in my next article in this series at: http://jewishdating-service.blogspot.com/
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