Anal Pleasure

Millions of people of all sexual orientations practice and enjoy anal play.
There are several types of anal sex: 1) Manual (with the help of hands, inserting a finger in the rectum)-anal masturbation; 2) Oral (tongue and lips)-rimming, analingus; 3) Genital (with penis, by full or partial insertion) -anal intercourse, anal coitus; 4) Artificial-with the help of special devices, anal toys (anal vibrators, anal beads, butt plugs, anal beads, anal probes, dildos etc.).

Anal sex has a rich history of practicing, as it is a well known fact, that people of many ancient cultures preferred anal sex to a vaginal intercourse. However the attitude towards anal intercourse and anal eroticism always depended on the culture and religion of a particular nation. While it was widely spread and highly praised by ancient people, the introduction of Christianity affected the attitude towards anal sex a lot. The negative attitude made a huge impact on Unite States, affecting Europe to a lesser degree. Even nowadays the attitude to anal sex of the majority of people is very negative. The society still considers it to be unnatural, indecent and improper behavior.

Despite the society's attitude, there is nothing politically incorrect in anal sex. It is just one of the variants of sexual intercourse.

Another fallacy about anal sex is that only homosexuals can enjoy it. Men do enjoy anal penetration more that women, due to the fact that male prostate is placed in the anus. Prostate is very sensitive and massaging it can bring orgasm compared to the orgasm during clitoris stimulation. The orgasm from prostate stimulation is more intensive and is very pleasurable for men. However many heterosexual couples are practicing anal play too.

The major concerns people have about anal intercourse are safety and painful sensation. To dispel these concerns we can say that anal sex is safe and won’t cause any painful experience if performed in a correct way. The length and width of human rectum exceed the average size of penis and anal sex won't turn into a painful experience if you don't apply force.

If you made up your mind to try this type of play, it would be better that your partner has a long penis but with a small girth size. That will ease the insertion. But if you still have concerns that your partner's penis is too big for your anus, you can use anal toys. This is the best solution for the first anal intercourse, as you can choose the size and can control the frequency, force and depth of penetration.

Another advantage of anal toys is that you can use it during the vaginal intercourse with your partner or during clitoral stimulation or both. You can also let your partner penetrate you anally with dildo or anal vibrator, which is also very pleasurable experience for both of you. And finally, using anal toys gives you an opportunity to introduce anal play to your partner and let him experience anal pleasure.

There are few things that you have to remember about anal sex. Always use special lubrication when inserting something in your rectum, be it a penis or anal toy. Don't try to fully insert a penis, a dildo or a vibrator during your first time anal play. Start introducing anal play in your sex life slowly, by experimenting with anal toys to find out what works best for you.