em>It's a well known fact that women are always worried about something, be it their career, their children, or their bed and sex life. What about men? Are they really 'cold-blooded' creatures or is it just an image, cherishing their manhood.
You would be surprised to find out that men do have fears and their sexual worries take the leadership here. But we are not going to take advantage of them, using their fears to rule them. At least, the majority of us won't do that. Because, if you really do care about your man you'll try to help him solve his sexual fears. Besides, you'll be the one who benefits from that.
The majority of men are concerned that they are worse lovers than your ex. Therefore, try not to mention how great was your ex in bed.
Some women like having such 'hearty conversations' about their adventurous sexual life, their bedroom experiments with their exs, telling how exciting it all was, giving details of all the skills and techniques of her former lover. This openness will make your man jealous and insecure. You want to have a jealous and insecure lover? Then do it, tell your lover how much you enjoyed making love with another man.
Yet I doubt you'd want that. What you can do is to tell your partner how much you enjoy him doing all these things to you. Don't be embarrassed name every little thing you enjoy him doing to you. This is where you can apply your openness.
Make your own experiments, try something neither of you tried before. You can introduce anal play into your sex life (if you haven't already introduced), or start watching sexual movies, or pick up sex toys together online, discuss how you are going to use sex toys you've chosen on each other. All these activities can strengthen your relationship.Let him feel his uniqueness.
Not only women are permanently worried about their body shape. This is quite a pressing question for many men as well. A man can be bothered that his body is not sexy enough for you. No matter what he thinks, is he too fat, too skinny, too short, too hairy, give him the confidence by saying that you enjoy every inch of his body. Kiss and touch his body on every occasion, showing how much you like his skin, his butt, show him how aroused you get when touching his body. Body imperfections can't spoil great intercourse, while worries about them can completely ruin it.
Many men are worried that they don't satisfy you. Sometimes men can get tired to keep up to your expectations. Yes, it's true: men can lose their libidos too. This is natural for both men and women. Don't put pressure on him, just give him a break. Usually it's a temporary state. Offer him a relaxing massage, but at first warn him that it's for relaxation only. Take his pressure off. If this state lasts for quite a long time, take a couple of days off and spend them in bed with your partner.
Men are often not very confident about the way they caress you and stimulate your hot spots. If you have no complaints about it, assure your man your enjoying his touches to bits. Make a show out of it. When he starts caressing you, let your body show him the way you feel. Don't restrain yourself, gyrate in from of your man, give pleasure screams, ask for more. Or you can set another performance, in case if there is a gap in his techniques knowledge. Perform in front of him; show him how you touch yourself, and then ask him to repeat.
This is not only helpful for him but also very arousing. Just don't give it like a lesson to him, but like a foreplay. Let him study without knowing he is being taught. Keep your man self confident and happy. Eventually, you will be the one reaping all the sweet rewards.
Source: http://www.ArticlePros.com/author.php?Lena Laursen
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