Your guy needs to know that you are supportive. It is something a man really relies on and thrives on within a relationship. If your support wavers, is inconsistent, or doesn’t exist at all, these are all factors that can really play with a man’s mind and ultimately his direction and motivation.
Every man interviewed, surveyed, every man I’ve ever known, including myself, all stressed that the support of their partner in life’s endeavours and pursuits is a vital and key element in the eventual success or failure of those pursuits.
When on our own, we men still pursue things.
• Careers
• Money
• Adventure
• Lifestyle
However, our attention can often be somewhat divided among going after these things, and seeking out a life partner.
Once in a loving relationship men can usually focus much better on the pursuit of careers and money and everything that comes with it. Sure, he still needs to pay attention to the lady in his life and nurture the relationship so it doesn’t wilt and die, but he naturally finds himself being able to focus more on other ventures than he ever could before.
The reasons for this are simple. He now has two very important elements in his life fulfilled.
• Stability
• The support of a loving partner
Now, once in this coexisting situation, if the state of the union between himself and his girl becomes unstable in any way, or she refuses to, or is inconsistent in offering her support of his endeavours, a man suddenly finds it very hard, if not virtually impossible, to give a project (or a goal or dream) his one hundred percent commitment and effort.
That is why it is so vital for a woman to give her man complete support.
In some ways this support does come with conditions attached. If your partner is hell bent on pursuing some ludicrous, possibly dangerous or otherwise foolish goal, then it will prove very difficult for you to support him on it.
This is where your vital and much needed feedback and input really come into play. If his plans really aren’t wise, and you are sure no good will come of it, stick to your guns, tell him why you think the way you do and that you can’t offer support in such an endeavour.
Source: http://www.ArticlePros.com/author.php?Darren G. Burton
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