This is actually easier than it seems. Many men want to approach you but are afraid of rejection. Your body language has alot to do with whether they follow that urge or not. If you want a man to approach you - 1) Put away the laptop 2) Turn off your cell phone 3) Leave that good book at home 4) Uncross your arms You want to put aside any of the unconscious signals that we put out that says," Leave me alone I'm busy." Instead: 1) Make eye contact 2) Smile 3) Incline your head in that way that says," Come on over." From those subtle green lights, you have just let him know that it is safe to approach and almost anything he cares to say is welcome.
