What is love? I don’t have the truth. I get it from other places. But these distinctions of ‘Love’ gives me powerful and freedom when I love. I invite everyone to try it and see how it will inspires you. Love is not a feeling. Love is something you create every moment for yourself and other people. Have a look at this example. When you feel you fall in love with your boyfriend, you equals it that you love him. When you don’t feel you love him, you equals it to not loving him. During that moment, you might think of continue pretending to love or leave him. Does this kind of love inspires you? To me, it looks like we are controlled by definitions made by people about love. We label things that happen with the ‘love’ tags and ‘not love’ tags with definitions by others. When we love with power and freedom, we love by creating love for ourselves and others. When we want to love, we can generate it anywhere, anytime and anyone. This is the freedom and power to love. Love is about relating with the other person. What is the opposite of love? Hate? In this love, the opposite of love is not related. When you hate a person, you just try very hard to cut off the relatedness you have with them. But no matter how much you hate the other person, you will notice there is a relation to them. Have you heard “The more you love, the more you hate”? Hate is just a way to resist, avoid or force yourself to believe that you still love the other person. When you stop to hate that person and accept you still love them, you will have a lot of freedom to move on in your life and not influence by them anymore. When you can’t love another person, you might be not willing to accept them. When you accept them, love arises. When you accept who they are, you can relate to them again. Love never disappear! Love is around you but suppress by all the expectation and anger. Love is everything. Love is everything? Yes. Love is everything you touch, every person you meet, every where you go and inside you. Love fills up every space. There is abundance of love. You don’t need to trade love with people who you love, because it’s every where. Have fun and be happy about it.
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