3. Making a woman nervous with your body language.
If you start talking to a woman, but your posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting around but not meeting hers, and you're wearing an unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails tucked in, you're probably not going to get a favorable response.
If you creep a woman out, things aren't going to work for you.
4. Not understanding a woman's body language and other communication.
When you start talking to a woman, she will let you know within a very short time if she's receptive to talking to you.
If you've been reading too many books that say "A woman will signal her availability and interest by flipping her hair, licking her lips, and cocking her head coyly at you", then get over it.
This stuff happens to Brat Pitt, not to you.
And if it does happen to you, then skip this part.
When you first start talking to a woman she's either going to keep talking to you in an open, comfortable way or she's not.
She's either going to act like things are cool or she's going to act like they're not.
This is an amazing thought, but women get nervous too. They will often stop talking just because they can't think of anything to say, etc.
But you need to pay attention.
Experience is the best teacher here.
My simple point is that most guys cause rejection by what they're doing. They aren't paying attention, or they're doing things that are offensive.
If you just avoid a few major mistakes, learn how to start conversations with women, and do a few simple things right, you'll all but totally avoid "rejection" from the women you approach.
Source: http://www.ArticlePros.com/author.php?David DeAngelo
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