Another huge mistake men make is giving away our power to women.
I'm not going to go into it, but the reality is that women are not attracted to weak men. And I'm not talking about muscles here.
If you act like a Wuss, you are shooting yourself in the foot.
Here are a few examples of how we guys act predictable, give away our power, and make about 147 other huge mistakes with women we've just met:
1) Call Her All The Time
If you like someone, it's logical that you're going to want to let them know, right?
Well, only if you like the idea of coming across like a total Jack-Wuss. I just made that up, by the way. Combination of Jackass and Wuss. Not sure if I like it, but I'm going to go with it.
Where was I?
Yeah, calling her all the time.
Calling all the time is usually triggered by insecurity and neediness. It sounds like a good idea, but it almost never is.
This is a great way to lose a girl before you even have her. We might even call this one "Have Prevention".
2) Offer To Take Her Somewhere "Nice"
What do most guys do when they meet a girl that they "really" like?
Well, they call her up, and they get into a boring conversation about schools and families and jobs and 100 other painfully boring things...and when they finally realize that they've been on the phone for an hour, they realize that they'd better
do something soon...because she's starting to talk about having to go wash her dog....
So what do they do?
They think to themselves, "Self, you'd better get up some nerve and ask her out. Hey! Self! I have a great idea. Ask her to go out with you to a really nice place. She'll be far more likely to want to do that, and besides, then she'll know
that you really like her...."
And what does this really communicate?
Right, right.
That you have the confidence to just ask her to spend time with you for no reason other than the fact that you want to...and that you must not be worth spending time with - without some kind of "meal incentive".
Meal Incentive... lol... I crack myself up.
Well, this is one more example of something that "sounds good" in the moment, but is bad bad bad for business.
Source: http://www.ArticlePros.com/author.php?David DeAngelo
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