You've probably noticed that I don't talk about the idea of "romance" very often.
There's a good reason for this.
I think that most guys use romance in completely the wrong way, and in the process screw up their chances with the woman that they are interested in.
I'm going to take some time here to talk about my personal perspective on romance, how it is misused, and how to use it to really make a woman feel attracted to you.
Most guys make one of two main mistakes when trying to be "romantic":
1) They try to use romance to create attraction.
2) They use too much romance, thinking that more must be better.
Let me ask you this... What does romance mean to you?
I'm serious. Think about it for a minute.
Does romance mean gifts and flower?
Does it mean fancy dinners?
Does it mean candles and soft music?
To me, romance is about showing a softer side of yourself... a more thoughtful side... in a way that is meant to increase the woman's attraction for you.
Like I just mentioned, most guys either try to use romance to create attraction, or they do too many things in an attempt to "be romantic", and the effect is lost.
Here's a quiz:
In general, would a woman think you were more romantic if you:
1) Brought her red roses every time you saw her.
2) Brought her one flower the fourth time you saw her, but it was her favorite flower, in her favorite color.
Here's another one...
In general, would a woman think you were more romantic if you:
1) Took her to a fancy dinner every time you saw her.
2) Didn't take her to dinner, but one night cooked her a favorite dish that your mom taught you and told her the story of how it came to be a family favorite?
Do you see where I'm going with these examples? "Romance" is all about the context of the situation. In other words, little things that are thoughtful, used once in awhile will make far more of an impact than trying to do everything you possibly can all the time.
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