Ladies are you out there and can you hear me now, can you hear me now, can you hear me now . This is the soulful diva here and I'm coming in loud and clear. I want to take a minute to talk to you about your relationships or your lack of. It has so become the norm in society today to sleep around with any and everybody and thats exactly what everyone is doing. Women we have dropped our guard lowered our standards and threw the rules out the window. We dont stand for anything real so we fall for the fake. We allow men to wisper sweet nothings into our ears until the panties just slide off. We as women are so desperate to have even the smallest piece of love that we do anything in our power to hold on too it no matter how much it hurts. It is up to us as women to take a stand (today) and say no. No I will no sleep with you on the first date, No I will not sleep with a Married man, No I will not sleep with a taken man and until we do they win. They get to have their cake and eat it to. So stop allowing random men to pick you up in bars, supermarkets or whereever they go to pick up easy women. Have more respect for yourselves and I guarantee you that he will to. If you carry yourself like a lady he will with out a doubt treat you like one. So lose the low riders which show off your ass crack and those 2.99 CZ studded thongs and I bet the quality of men who start to approach you will change and so will their perception of the type of woman you are. Just keeping it real. THe Soulful Diva. Shewanda Harley
Shewanda Harley 3? year young single mother of wonderful 14 year old diva in the making. I'm a up and coming author
I graduated from Southern Illinois University with a degree in Liberal Arts.
I'm currently working on a relationship book which I know will be on the NY best sellers list. Sooooo look out for me this wont be the last time you read about The Soulful Diva Shewanda Harley
