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A common question I am asked is: How can I use my words to create attraction in women? You see, one key shift in understanding how to get what you want with the women you want is: STOP FOCUSING ON WHAT YOU WANT WOMEN TO DO WITH YOU! Now, I know this may seem like a key paradox. But the key here is, GO FOR HER FEELINGS FIRST! If you can create the intense, passionate feelings in women that they dream about then THE BEHAVIORS THAT FLOW FROM THOSE FEELINGS: PLEASING YOU, WILL COME NATRUALLY AND EASILY. So the real question is: how can we awaken the feelings and emotional states with women? Just remember this rule: her imagination is the key to her emotions. If you can capture her imagination, then you can capture her emotions. Capture her emotions and you tap into the deep cultural and social conditioning that teaches women from the time they can first speak that following their emotions is the key to being a woman. You can do this in a way that truly fulfills her and leaves her feeling wonderful, so BOTH of you win. Every year, romance novels outsell every other form of fiction combined, not just in the United States, but the ENTIRE Western world. Tom Clancy, John LeCarre, Stephen King and any of your other favorite authors combined can't even make even a small dent in the sales of books that you and I as men would RIGHTLY consider trash! Yet women of all ages read these things. Why? Simply because they want their imagination and emotions stimulated and women do this through words; the words they speak, the words they hear, and in this case the words they read.
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