Attraction Problems Were Yesterday
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After spending lots of time on different forums, web sites and talking to lots of men, I have realized that there are a lot of men out there that are just not living the life they should and want.
And one of the main problem they have is attracting women. They just can't do it.
Whether they are looking for the girl of their lives, or one night stands, they all seem to have the same problem. And if they could just analyze the problem a bit better, they would realize that the problem is not physical appearance, money, fame or techniques.
They need to commit to them self, to sort their life, and get this aspect handled. And once they start, they realize that getting this handled will have an impact on all areas of their life.
Years ago, after having unsuccessful approaches, I started forgetting, not handling this part of my life but forgetting it. I would just lie to myself, this is not for me, I can't do it, and I would go after other stuff. And that had a negative impact on lots of areas of my life. I would start playing more video games (I even joined a game hacking team. It's like lots of guys, buying and playing games all the time and making cheats for them...), go out to more "dumb" places and so on...
And one day, I still have the image clear in my mind.
I see myself sitting at a table with a average girl and we are drinking coffee. I'm looking at the girl, I know she is not much and I shouldn't have any problem being with her. Maybe because I'm seeing my self as a average guy, so she must like me, right?
How wrong was I. I couldn't have attracted her, and I couldn't even attract any girl I liked!
And so I started a journey to learn more about my self, my problems, how to fix them, and what my goal is. I listened to tapes, went to seminars, discussed dating on lots of forums, read seduction newsletters and e books and so on...
And during that, I've learned lots of different stuff. Stuff that were just there, waiting for you to see them. Some maybe were a bit harder, but everything was worth it.
But I also realized another thing. None of that will work if you don't have a great commitment to change and to have a clear image what you want. The more commitment and clearer image you have, the faster & less trouble you will have on your journey.
And this is the part were I want to invite all of you guys that are really interested in learning how to attract girls and get positive reactions in every part of their life. Continue only if are really ready. Just think about it.
Now, I guess you want to continue. Great, you can just call me Black.
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