" How To Get A Woman To Orgasm?"
The subject of orgasm is indeed a very strange one. To men it is simple, ejaculate! And hey,
you're there! They find much more difficulty in understanding the female orgasm.
A woman can have an explosive orgasm which actually shoots vaginal fluid right out (similar to
a man's ejaculation), and another where waves of ecstasy just envelop the woman and the fluids
still flow copiously, but perhaps less violently! How to get both results are extensively
covered in this article.
Well, here it is your guide to getting a woman to orgasm. I've cut out the padding, the
diagrams, the paraphernalia, as much as possible. So you can read what you want (the essential
facts), absorb them - and then, of course, apply them! I honestly believe that this is one of
the best "sex" investments you could ever make. So let's get to it. Try it, and then adapt it
for yourself.
THE ORGASM
Taking any woman to orgasm every time is not that hard! If you absorb and act on the nuggets of
information in the following article, believe me, your love life will be enriched in a way you
will have never imagined!
TRUSTING YOUR PARTNER.
Men can never understand. They can get off in almost any circumstance. So can a girl, but only
if she has grown to trust the man she's with to get her to orgasm. Ensure that she's
comfortable, in a safe, soothing environment - "quickies" usually only do it for the man. The
girl remains unsatisfied. You may think that you know when a woman is aroused, when she's
orgasmic, or when she's faking it. A man can rarely tell. The first step to the orgasm secret
is simple. Make love to her - gently. Notice the key words we've used here - trust and gently.
Orgasm must be teased into existence. Imagine that you had an itch somewhere, but for some
reason was unable to scratch it. As time went on that desire to scratch would become stronger
and stronger. This is a perfect analogy to apply to lovemaking. To your lovemaking. The secret
is in gently teasing her into that state. Building up that "itch" until it has to be satisfied
(by you).
THE KISS.
Kissing alone can take some women to orgasm! This may give you an idea as to the importance
that they place on this act. When you are sitting, fully clothed with the goal of eventually
making love, kiss her gently. Take your time. Remember that slower and gentler is better. Kiss
her gently, try to awaken her senses. At times hold back your mouth - make her want it! Deprive
her of it! Increase her desire, make her go for it.
TOUCHING.
When you start to touch, make it deliberate. What I'm saying is, don't start groping as soon as
the kissing starts! Hold back (have I said that before? Well take note then!). When you touch,
think of new novel ways and places, for e.g. "using the back of your fingernails. "stroking her
neck. " "featherlight caresses on her forearms", "her back," " her calves", "the back of her
knees (women love to be kissed and licked here as well)."
Much of the above obviously applies to when both of you are in a state of undress. Remember to
apply the "hold back" theory to this as well. Don't hop about with one sock on as you tussle
with your belt! It looks unsexy - it is unsexy! Take your time. Undress each other slowly -show
her your finesse.
HER BREASTS.
After a while start caressing her breasts - remember we haven't gone below the waist yet! Take
your time - hold back. Good things come to those who wait. With breasts, as with her whole
body, don't be rough, don't be in a hurry and don't be boring - innovate! Don't pummel or
squeeze, use your nails and finger tips. Flick your tongue around there. Avoid her nipples.
Don't get to those until later. This is the most sensitive part of the breast. By teasing in
this manner you are creating desire, creating an anticipation, holding back on something that
she wants and will more fervently want, more and more of. Don't give in and get rough, keep it
up. You are already in a select band of men - you're taking your time!
BEING A GREAT LOVER.
An essential ingredient in the make up of a great lover is that he enjoys it! Great, you're
probably thinking, I do enjoy it! I love it! So I must be a great lover. But do you? Most men
love the concept of it, so that they can boost their ego and gain approval from their pals. If
you truly enjoy sex, then you want it to go on and on and on. Not put it in, a few strokes
ejaculate and out! The reason we've spent so long and not even touched her between her legs is
because of this. Making love is an art form, learn it. Women adore the process we've described
so far, the feelings, the kisses, and the embrace. Don't think of individual "erogenous" zones.
Her whole body is an erogenous zone! Believe me, that's no exaggeration!
OTHER AREAS FOR ATTENTION.
So we're getting her to that elusive comfort zone. Here are a few tips. Consider them rules and
you're on your way. Abide by them. Pay attention to the whole body - hair, ears, shoulders,
forehead, forearms, between breasts, inner thighs. Hold her hand - she'll love it Treat her
like you've known her for ages. She's the greatest thing in your life. This will increase the
excitement and pleasure for both of you. Although this is a list. Don't appear to be going by
routine. Chop and change. Excite her!
Try to look deep into her eyes as often and as long as you can. It will strengthen your
connection and heighten the experience. Use your instinct. Gauge the situation and decide your
next move. Build up the light touches to sucking and massage, to ease out tense areas. Don't be
robotic with your approach. Smooth flowing movements are what's required. All this is building
up her trust, your adoring, careful touch will solidify her trust. You must enjoy and
appreciate the experience. Be in the moment. The likelihood of meeting a good lover is so slim,
many women don't even know what a good lover is. Be that good lover - surprise her - excite
her!
Concentrate on "non-sexual" parts as well. This in itself will surprise and delight her. Be
giving and totally unselfish. A woman absolutely loves to be valued. She cannot and doesn't
want to separate the act of love and the circumstances around it. She needs emotional intimacy.
So act on the above and give it to her. And we haven't even reached between her legs yet!
GIVING HER ORGASMS.
Your girl should be in a really high state of arousal if you've touched her as recommended so
far. So now slowly slide your hand between her legs. At first skim the area with your finger
tips, lightly brushing the pubic hair. Men's penis's have a life of their own. By this stage
the man has probably been rock hard and ready for penetration several times. If you're semi-
hard start gently rubbing her clitoris with the head of your penis (the clitoris is the small
"hooded" thing at the upper end of the mouth of the vagina). This rubbing should get you hard.
If you're already hard, still do it. As before begin lightly and gently then build up the
pressure. As always be gentle, softly play with her vagina. She should be getting the message
that you could go in, but you're not! There we go again! You're holding back. You've now joined
an elite band of men, as she's probably puzzled here. Why isn't he ramming it in?
The majority of men do, and her previous experience is probably no different. But you are! HOLD
BACK. Tease her! You must now tease until she practically begs you to put it in. The more you
tease her clitoris, the more aroused she will get. She'll now tell you to put it in - but
don't! Hold back. You want her to ache for it, more and more. OK, so now she's aching, forget
aching -she's practically begging! What are you going do? Put it in? No way! Give her an inch!
Put it in slightly and pull it out. Slowly in, slowly out. Gradually, but slowly remember,
allow a bit more of your penis - slowly in, slowly out. Never go all the way - not until she
starts to orgasm. What is happening here is that her clitoris is being teased. Teased and
teased until she achieves orgasm. Banging away, straight away, like most guys do, just leads to
soreness! So she fakes an orgasm just to get the man the hell out of there!
As you're slowly going in and out - never all the way - she gets more and more aroused - and so
will you! Because really both of you are holding back on what you really want. Tease her until
you simply can't take it any more. This will be way beyond her endurance point. Right, so now
she's nearing the peak - she's begging you for the orgasm she so desperately needs, go in
deeper and out, deeper and out, keeping the slow tortuous pace until you see her starting to
orgasm - true orgasm.
Once you get to full penetration, whatever she does, you'll know it's real - the girl just had
an orgasm, maybe her first one - and you did it, not by chance but by design - and you can do
it again. You deliberately teased her until she couldn't hold back any longer and opened up
completely to you. Now the fact is, if you can get aroused again, you can do it again, giving
her several more orgasms. Now you won't have to tease and they'll come much quicker. And you
can do it a little harder as well. If you can keep from coming, do so, as this will pleasure
her into more orgasms. If you do come, believe me it'll be good - real good, maybe the best
orgasm you've ever had!
One sure-fire way of knowing that your lover is in an orgasmic state; she will produce a sweet,
intoxicating saliva, and even in the throes of passion you will tangibly notice the gorgeous
taste; sweet exquisite and tastier than honey mixed with pure water.
This reaction is not some unattainable myth, and once you experience it (using the above
method), you will want it again and again. It gives a man a shivering sensation throughout his
body, and is truly intoxicating.
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